Trusting God in the Wait: Waiting for Marriage, Kids, and God’s Promise

Chassidy
Aug 4, 2025
4 min read

It's been MONTHS yall, forgive me... BUT....

Have you ever found yourself standing at a crossroads, wondering if your desires will ever be fulfilled? Maybe you’ve been waiting for a spouse, praying for that perfect marriage, or desiring children to call your own. Perhaps you’re like me, caught in the tension of wanting what’s in your heart, but also trying to fully surrender it all to God’s timing.

It’s tough, right? Waiting. Whether it’s for the right job, a ministry opportunity, or in this case, your future husband, the wait can feel long, uncertain, and sometimes downright frustrating. But God’s promises are unchanging, and in this season, it’s so important to remind ourselves that waiting is not wasted time.

I’ve had my own moments of impatience. I’ve dreamed about marriage, children, and building a life with someone who aligns with God’s calling for me. But here’s what I’ve learned: in the waiting, God is working. He’s refining me, building my character, and teaching me how to fully surrender to His perfect will. I’ve been praying, asking God to align my heart with His timing and trusting that His plan is far better than anything I could orchestrate on my own.

There’s a desire in my heart to be a wife and a mother, to share a life full of love, laughter, and growth. But I’ve had to remind myself that God’s promises are always worth the wait. The scripture that keeps me grounded during this season is Isaiah 40:31 – “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

God sees our hearts and He knows the desires we carry. And when He brings those promises to life, it will be in His timing and in His way, perfectly designed for His glory and our good.

So, what does it look like to trust God in the wait? For me, it’s been about pursuing purpose even while I wait for marriage. It’s about pouring myself into the things God has called me to do now—leading the DFW Christian Collective, writing, mentoring, and growing in my relationship with Him. Every step of the way, I’m reminding myself that my identity isn’t in what I have or don’t have, but in who I am in Christ.

This journey has also led me to a place where I’m discipling other women and serving in my church community. One of the most fulfilling things for me has been seeing the growth of the Hike & Heal ministry. In July 2024, we had about 13 people attend. By July 2025, we had grown to 215 participants, and just this past weekend, we had about 250 people show up! It’s been such a testament to God’s faithfulness and the power of coming together in community to heal and grow. Through this ministry, I’ve been able to serve others, both spiritually and emotionally, in a way that I never imagined. God has used me as a vessel to bring healing, empowerment, and hope, and I’m constantly in awe of what He’s doing.

Alongside that, I continue to serve in my church, One Community Church, and pour into others as a part of the leadership team. The privilege of serving God’s people, whether through Hike & Heal, mentoring women, or supporting my church’s mission, has given me a deep sense of purpose that helps me trust God more fully while I wait.

And for those of us desiring children, I know the longing for motherhood can be overwhelming. But trust me when I say: God has a perfect plan for us. We may not see the whole picture right now, but we can rest in the fact that He is faithful and His promises never fail.

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t hear a lot of opinions along the way. My parents and grandparents, in their loving wisdom, often remind me about not having kids yet. "When’s it going to happen?" they ask, and I can’t help but smile. I know their hearts are filled with love and concern for me, but it can feel a little overwhelming sometimes. They’re so excited for that next step in my life, and I get it. But this journey is between me and God, and I’m trusting that His timing will be perfect. I’m learning that just because it’s not happening on someone else’s timeline, doesn’t mean it’s not happening.

As I wait, I’m learning to take each day as it comes, surrendering my desires, my plans, and my timeline to God. Purpose doesn’t pause while we wait—it’s part of the journey. So, while we trust God with our future spouse, children, and life, let’s also trust Him with the very moments we’re in. Let’s find joy in the waiting, knowing that He is shaping us into the people we need to be, and preparing us for what’s ahead.

I know waiting is hard. But I also know that God is faithful to complete what He has started (Philippians 1:6). He hasn’t forgotten the desires of your heart. He’s simply preparing you for His very best.