Waiting Season: Making the Wait Worth It

Chassidy
Sep 29
3 min read

Hey Y’all,

I want to talk a little deeper today about being in a waiting season. I’ve shared before how challenging it can be to wait for God’s timing, whether it’s for a purpose, a relationship, or a next step in life. But there’s a part of this season that I’ve learned to embrace, especially as someone walking in abstinence.

Choosing to wait has sharpened my discernment. It’s taught me to see people, opportunities, and situations more clearly, without the blur of emotions or pressure. I’ve learned not to settle for anything less than what God has for me. That’s a powerful gift, y’all. It’s made me intentional about my decisions, about my relationships, and even about my daily walk with Him.

What God is teaching me right now is so real: He is not a genie, and my life is not a vending machine where I can just pick what I want and make it happen instantly. I’ve learned to trust His timing, and I’ve realized that I have enough wisdom now to end things quickly if they do not align with His will. I’ve ended talking stages in less than two weeks ------ yes, not to brag, but because I know what God said, I know my worth, and I know what to look for as I intentionally connect with men for potential marriage.

This waiting season has also taught me that knowing your worth is essential, for both men and women. If you don’t have clarity on your identity in Christ, it’s easy to seek validation from others, to settle, or to compromise. That’s why I encourage anyone in a waiting season to spend time with God, asking Him to reveal your true identity. Know who you are, what you value, and what you will not compromise on.

But I won’t sugarcoat it, waiting is still hard. There are moments when the longing feels heavy, and the world makes it seem like everyone else has it figured out. I’ll be honest, sometimes I wrestle with impatience, doubt, and the temptation to shortcut God’s process. That’s why leaning into Him daily is so important.

Scripture reminds us in Psalm 27:14, “Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!” Waiting doesn’t mean doing nothing, it means trusting, growing, and walking in purpose even when the timing isn’t ours. That’s why this season can actually become one of the most fruitful seasons of your life if you allow it.

Being abstinent, waiting, and intentionally living in God’s timing has made me value myself more, honor God more, and recognize His plans as far greater than my own. It’s challenging, yes, but the reward, clarity, discernment, and alignment with God’s will, is worth every moment.

If you’re in a waiting season right now, I want to encourage you: don’t rush. Don’t compromise. Don’t settle. Use this season to grow, to pray, to discern, and to deepen your relationship with God. Let Him prepare you for what’s coming, even if it feels uncomfortable.

And let’s do this together. Share your story, your struggles, and your wins with someone you trust. Accountability and encouragement from others can help you stay rooted while you wait.

Call to Action: Take a moment today to journal your heart, pray for patience, and ask God to reveal your worth and identity in Him. Lean into Him, trust His timing, and let Him guide your decisions, especially in dating and relationships.